Give yourself praise

 “I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.” — Marcus Aurelius

Sure, receiving praise feels good. It is positive approval of our work and gives us a sense of acceptance.

But what happens if we don’t get the recognition we think we deserve?
Should everyone expect to be acknowledged for their hard work?
Does it change our approach towards our goal?

As we become older, the compliments and appreciation become less frequent. Everyone becomes wrapped up in their own world and we sometimes forget to speak on one another’s value.

Instead of reacting angrily or being disappointed because someone didn’t recognize our efforts, we should give ourselves praise.

Depending on others to encourage us or acknowledge our work can have a negative affect us. If we don’t receive praise, we may begin to second guess ourself, or even react by sabotaging our own work.

Children will act out if they are not recognized. As adults, we hinder our own progress by getting caught up in our feelings.

This weak behavior doesn’t affect the person we are looking to praise us, it affects us. We should not stop being our best, just because someone didn’t compliment our efforts or approve what we do.

It is our job to keep making progress. Continue to do our best, because we never know who is watching. Someone may give us an opportunity that may advance us to another level.

Give yourself praise. Acknowledge your own hard work and efforts. Never wait on someone else’s approval or recognition. You can compliment your own achievements. Have your own satisfaction and pride in a job well done.